it is very noble that you guys are not only sympathetic but also empathetic. i have no doubt about that.
by "being optimistic" i meant not to give up even in the worst adversity.
optimism doesn't serve us meals at the dinner table yet it can cheer us up and keep our heads up high when facing the most difficult situations in our lives, which are unavoidable.
i'm not an optimist myself. but again, i don't think people should ever lose heart.
whether life is full of desperation or hope is just a state of mind. sometimes sickness can be a blessing in disguise. you never know. it depends on how you look at it. anyway, life is sacred, no matter how painful.
btw, we only live once. imho, to live as an optimist and spread the happiness and hope to people around you does more good to the society than an pessimist. :-)
I read again and can't stop my fury on you. Sorry to say this but, YOU ARE HEARTLESS! It is not "no matter how painful". No, it is never "sacred" if we don't struggle, and it is never a "bless" when it comes to taking people's life. Neither the nature or the "God" cares any bit of human life. Instead, we are dispensable as shit, unless WE DO SOMETHING, instead of being "optimistic".
Listen, does your "optimism" stop the scream and cry? Does it stop the pain and desperation? It is you, but not the suffered, feel good with "optimism"! You may do whatever to peace your heart. But I choose to clear the ugly, instead of painting them as beauty.
whether life is full of desperation or hope is just a state of mind. sometimes sickness can be a blessing in disguise. you never know. it depends on how you look at it. anyway, life is sacred, no matter how painful.
btw, we only live once. imho, to live as an optimist and spread the happiness and hope to people around you does more good to the society than an pessimist. :-)
Sorry man. I, as a sober person, can't agree to drug myself with your so-called "optimism". The dark and ugly facts are just out side your window, and they are never "bless" for the point of mine, a human being. It may be a bless from some thing called "God" or the heartless mother nature (yes it is heartless!), but not from me. So don't paint the window with your "optimism", it won't help. Ask yourself, ask your heart.
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在 米老排：胰腺癌日记 留言：
人类的灵魂在物质世界面前没有尊严可言。妥协从来不是选择。无不用起极地反抗才是出路。
2008-02-17 05:00:24
在 绝望的生命 留言：
Yes... Very likely I misunderstood your message.
My apology.
2008-02-12 00:35:26
在 绝望的生命 留言：
I read again and can't stop my fury on you. Sorry to say this but, YOU ARE HEARTLESS! It is not "no matter how painful". No, it is never "sacred" if we don't struggle, and it is never a "bless" when it comes to taking people's life. Neither the nature or the "God" cares any bit of human life. Instead, we are dispensable as shit, unless WE DO SOMETHING, instead of being "optimistic".
Listen, does your "optimism" stop the scream and cry? Does it stop the pain and desperation? It is you, but not the suffered, feel good with "optimism"! You may do whatever to peace your heart. But I choose to clear the ugly, instead of painting them as beauty.
2008-02-11 14:04:41
在 绝望的生命 留言：
Sorry man. I, as a sober person, can't agree to drug myself with your so-called "optimism". The dark and ugly facts are just out side your window, and they are never "bless" for the point of mine, a human being. It may be a bless from some thing called "God" or the heartless mother nature (yes it is heartless!), but not from me. So don't paint the window with your "optimism", it won't help. Ask yourself, ask your heart.
2008-02-11 13:31:34